From Nursery Dreams to Life’s Fight Teharnee Peel
The quiet joy of preparing for her first baby, painting the nursery, assembling tiny clothes, and dreaming of the future, was abruptly eclipsed by an unimaginable diagnosis.
In the days after her 20-week ultrasound, with life blossoming within her, the word "cancer" shattered the serenity, leaving Teharnee Peel staring down a daunting mass growing in her cervix.
Her battle ahead would intertwine the fragility of new life with the ferocity of survival, as chemotherapy coursed through her body while her son’s heartbeat echoed strong and steady, a lifeline of hope amidst the fear.
Teharnee’s story is one of remarkable strength, determination, and love. At 32 years old, the Mackay mother was faced with a devastating diagnosis: cervical cancer, discovered while she was five months pregnant with her first child, Harry. What followed was a journey that tested every limit, yet ultimately became a testament to the unbreakable bond between a mother and her child.
The news came unexpectedly, shattering the joy of pregnancy. Teharnee had visited Mackay’s Emergency Department a number of times experiencing intermittent bleeding. Initial assessments hypothesised a hematoma or a low-lying placenta, but her world was turned upside down when an MRI and biopsy revealed a 6.5cm cancerous mass in her cervix.
“I was shocked,” Teharnee said.
Despite being vaccinated against the HPV virus and having a clear cervical screening test, she was diagnosed with squamous cell carcinoma, a common form of cervical cancer.
From that moment, her focus shifted entirely to her unborn son.
“I went into total survival mode. I knew that cancer treatment was going to make me infertile, so I was prepared to do anything to save his life. My amazing obstetrician who had to deliver that news to me was fully supportive, escalating my case immediately.”
Teharnee was referred to South Brisbane’s Mater Cancer Care Centre under a complex team of specialists, including senior medical oncologist Dr. Catherine Shannon, and Professor Sailesh Kumar of the Maternal Fetal Medicine Unit (Mater Mothers’ Hospital). Facing the gruelling uncertainty of what lay ahead, the flight to Brisbane with her husband, Simon, was harrowing. But 30,000 feet up in the air, a steely resolve took over Teharnee. She put behind her plans of painting the nursery and doing all those beautiful nesting activities she had dreamt of, and geared up for the biggest fight of her life.
In Brisbane, she underwent a specialised chemotherapy regimen, one adapted for pregnant women that posed no risk to Harry.
“The experience was terrifying to say the least”, she said.
“I commenced chemo within two weeks of my diagnosis, and wound up in emergency with COVID after my very first round. I was so scared, spending my first week of treatment in an isolation ward in hospital, being visited by doctors in hazmat suits and trying to figure out how I was mentally going to get through this.”
Despite the fear and uncertainty, Teharnee was resolute.
After three rounds of chemo, Harry was born prematurely at 32 weeks gestation via a planned caesarean section. Weighing just 2.3kg, he spent three weeks between the Neonatal Critical Care Unit and Special Care Unit.
“Holding him the day after he was born for the first time was so surreal. The relief that he was finally out, and doing okay, was intense,” she said.
Teharnee’s battle continued even after Harry’s birth, with the main cancer treatment now set to begin.
“I started another five rounds of chemotherapy at only four weeks post-partum, in conjunction with 28 days of external beam radiation, and 48 hours of internal radiation,” she said.
“That treatment saw me arrive in emergency another three times with many nights on the oncology ward, shivering through fevers and high temperatures, and excruciating side effects from radiation.”
While Simon provided unwavering support, stepping into the dual role of caregiver for both his wife and newborn son, the toll on their family was immense.
“Simon had to become both my primary carer and Harry’s, which was a huge emotional and mental load. He was amazing,” she said.
While the months of treatment were brutal, the aftermath was unfortunately just as challenging, which is something many people don’t realise about cancer treatment. You don’t just snap your fingers and go back to your ‘old’ life. Absolutely nothing is the same.
“The mental and physical recovery took me a good 18 months, and is still ongoing in many ways,” Teharnee explained.
“No one talks enough about how your whole world changes after treatment. The fatigue, body aches and pains, body functionality, brain fog, early onset menopause, combined with the challenges of a newborn, was the perfect storm and I crashed, hard.”
Returning to Mackay with three-month-old Harry after five months away, Teharnee felt isolated from the team of specialists who had guided her through treatment in Brisbane. That’s when she remembered the Trudy Crowley Foundation Cancer Support Centre.
“Jacquie had kept in touch throughout my treatment, letting me know that when I was home and ready, the Foundation would be there to support me,” she said.
Her first visit to one of the Foundation’s fortnightly support groups was transformative.
“I felt immediately at home. Here was a group of people going through the same horrible side effects, fears, and anxieties as me.”
“The nurses, Chris and Rosie, were so warm and welcoming. It was such a relief to talk to people who understood.”
The Foundation’s impact extended beyond the support groups. The counsellor, Bec, became an essential figure in helping Teharnee navigate the emotional aftermath of her journey.
“It’s a beautiful, cosy environment where we can laugh about what we’ve been through.
“It’s not all doom and gloom.”
Today, Teharnee channels her experience into helping others. As an ambassador for the Foundation, she uses her Instagram platform, “From Bald to Ballin,” to connect with women facing similar battles.
“I’ve posted my story and regularly chat with other women. It’s been amazing to know I can give back during their time of need,” she said.
Her advocacy also extends to public speaking, sharing her journey at events and raising awareness about the importance of early detection.
Reflecting on her experience, Teharnee is acutely aware of the symptoms she ignored before her diagnosis.
“Prior to falling pregnant I remember finding tampons uncomfortable, but I stupidly didn’t seek medical help.”
“Once I was pregnant, I experienced frequent bleeding, one of the most common symptoms of cervical cancer,” she said.
Her message is clear: “Don’t ignore your body. If something doesn’t feel right, get checked.”
For Teharnee, the journey has been one of profound transformation. Though she and Simon have had to grieve the loss of the possibility of another child, their gratitude for Harry and each other is unwavering.
“We were just so grateful to have Harry,” she said.
As she looks to the future, Teharnee remains committed to supporting others through the Foundation and beyond.
“If you had told me what I was in store for, I would have said there’s no way I could get through it. But I did, one day and one hour at a time.
“Baby steps – that’s all anyone needs to remember.”
Teharnee and her husband, Simon, at the 2023 Touch of Teal Soirée where Teharnee was one of the guest speakers
